"Any it such... The Infantile muzhik. More shortly, the child". Think, that you mean, speaking it. Today with more or less expressed infantility it is possible to carry 70 % of adult Russians to persons. It is not excluded, as you one of them. More precisely - us.

No trouble in it is not present. But also good too. All most foolish decisions in mankind history were accepted by people with an infantile warehouse of character. In the life you have for certain made all most confused acts under the influence of own infantile fig.

Five questions to the infantile man

To behave sometimes childly does not mean at all to be infantile. Whether it is not enough, paternal the solid uncle runs on a ceiling - can, it has just concluded the bargain of a century. Will run about to itself and will calm down. But if children's character traits seriously operate behaviour of the man then he should reflect.

Give now together we will set to such person some questions. And if to you by article end will seem, that you spoke with yourself - perfectly! Means, you have already taken the first step to a victory over the infantilism.

The first and basic trouble of the infantile man - to it even in a sober kind any sea knee-deep. To consider, that you will overcome all on light, is completely not shameful. But silly to believe, as if you are abrupt to impossibility. Infantilism pushes the person to make of the decision on the verge of irresponsibility. He explains failures occurring because of it nevezuchestju, was sometimes rather able and is colourful. And actually at the heart of its miscalculations and errors - the unwillingness to think once again of possible consequences. Infantilism does not mean, that you are silly or slowly think. You simply always hope, that something will turn up. If not today, so tomorrow.

Happens, raskolotish the car and you shout, that it is not guilty. And somewhere in a nape itches: oh, I am vain so was dispersed! You will screw up things and assure: otherwise also could not be. And itself you know, that lazhanulsja. It is opposite to listen to this internal voice? Ha! Unlike you, it never says lies. It not so is indulgent to your lacks, as you. Understand: the bad luck likes those to whom is lazy to be prudent. Yes, it is a lot of to think very boringly. But it is favourable.

Infantile men more than others are subject to emotional splashes. They easily start as to be angry in vain, and to cry for no apparent reason. It is difficult to them to master emotions. However, they have a fad - they are easily appeased. Because of such complex of properties infantile people start often petty quarrels.

And very much are surprised, when them do not wish to excuse in five minutes. The excessive emotional unbalance can make the infantile person a life of the party - after all it always zhivee and is more cheerful than the others. But frequently it start to put into place that not too swung hands, and he is upset.

Often you can feel in the company superfluous what all any languid and boring? More often you unfairly offend? Happens so, what you come to friends, and you drive for a threshold, shouting something about awful insults which you have put them yesterday? Similar, business not that people such bad, and that you do not wish them to understand. Try though time to estimate a situation with their party.

If the infantile is on friendly terms, to a coffin if falls in love for ever. And both the great love, and strong friendship can come to an end this very day. Infantil simply is lazy to think, paternal to it it is good near to that or other person. It does not estimate such things in general. In different places to it it can be good for various reasons, but it for it at all has no value.

You easily change a circle of contacts? What do your friends represent actually? You are assured, what is really necessary to all of them badly? And you are ready to help them a difficult minute?

Long to concentrate on one subject too not its fad. The infantile person for twenty affairs undertakes faster at once. It is not excluded, that from them it will finish half, and successful. And there and then will lose to results any interest. He is called already by new shining tops. It can fill up the favourable business with ease, which itself untwisted from zero. Can set for itself essentially impracticable problem - and to execute it, having lost on a way set of friends and capitally having damped reputation. But then all the same will turn and will leave.

How much money you have lost what you were suddenly grown hateful by this or that business for last year (month)? Now imagine somebody tiresome, boring, but very persistent. If it undertakes affairs which you have thrown, there is it Rockefeller? Most likely, yes.

The infantile person is careless on the brink of a precipice. He simply does not see it. The basic trouble of the infantile person that she at unconscious level constantly searches pleasures. At children's age she simply does not realise it, but also the adult infantil too not in a condition to estimate, where it brings.

You are assured, that from a life it is necessary to take all on a maximum, all on light to test. You have already contracted debts on this way? Acted as the initiator of entertainments which have badly come to an end? Got serious physical traumas? Lead up relatives to a heart attack the bent for to entertainments? Do not worry - all it still will be.

And nevertheless, the infantile person is, for what to respect. In any business the main thing for it - to take pleasure in process. And it is correct. It is boring to stick only for money, is insulting to marry only with a view of reproduction.

But it is very interesting to work over itself, squeezing out from character infantile lines, from which one troubles. And cultivating other infantile lines for which you like.

Estimate the infantilism

Certainly, this test approximate. As well as in any test, here not always there will be your answer to the brought attention to the question. But find at least a similar variant. The answer "and" costs 0 points, the answer accordingly 1, and the answer "in" - 2 points.

1. As though you have designated people with whom you get acquainted more often?
   The Useful
   The Interesting
   The Various
   
   
2. And what for they are necessary to you?
   Basically for business
   To Have fun
   And it will be suddenly healthy?
   
   
3. How you find them?
   Purposefully, sometimes even in advance I enquire
   Under the influence of an impulse, having observed the person
   Has come, has seen, has won (if it has turned out)
   
   
4. Where you get acquainted with women is more often?
   In the circle, in convenient conditions
   On a visit
   Yes where will get, there would be a person good
   
   
5. What do you think, approaching to the perfect stranger?
   I Think, that it will not give up to me
   Lines it knows, but I will approach
   I will persuade any
   
   
6. And what for you in general with them get acquainted?
   With in advance considered intention (ha-ha!)
   With them and to live it is possible happens
   It is necessary to get acquainted, if it was pleasant
   
   
7. On what you gain money?
   Generally I the professional
   I Try...
   Do not worry, I am able to catch the moment!
   
   
8. What for they are necessary to you?
   To Increase
   To Spend with mind
   To Spend with mind and not only with it. We live once.
   
   
9. How you do purchases?
   Yes it is stupid - has come, has bought that is necessary, has left
   I will necessarily buy, that it would be desirable
   Eternally eyes run up. Everything, that was pleasant, I suffice, while money is
   
   
10. You have often failures?
    Very seldom
    Happens
    Differently
    
    
11. How you react to them?
    All the same, I here have miscalculated, and here. I will know.
    Well here, it was pinned. Next time...
    Seriously, I have foolish periods of failures
    
    
12. When at your congenial souls of trouble, what you think?
    Let's consult
    It is necessary to gain
    It is a shame to admit, but it even somehow pushes away
    
    
13. How you feel yourself in loneliness?
    I like dialogue, but to me and one it is not boring
    I Will prefer the company
    I Hate to be one, it is simply silly
    
    
14. Whose opinion on you for you the most objective?
    Yes mine, and all here!
    In my opinion, it is necessary to believe an estimation of my relatives
    The more people will respond about me well, the more correctly
    
    
15. How much at you friends?
    - to insulting it is not enough Presents
    There are friends, is simply familiar
    At me the car of friends
    
    

0-5

If you also have infantile lines, they can be neglected. To you never said, what you one kind bore?

6-15

You razdolbaj in reasonable limits. Most likely, with those lines of infantilism which to you prevent to live, you in a condition to understand.

16-25

And here you, the old man, razdolbaj on the verge of the reasonable. Because you also the intellectual idler. Think, how much remarkable possibilities you in a life have missed only that to you vlom was to estimate last errors and to think over the further steps. Look narrowly at people as whom you consider tupovatymi and boring. It is not excluded, that in how measuredly they live, there is a rational grain.

26-30

Once, having named yourself pofigistom, you have felt, that are proud of this definition. Was such? Really, not everyone can so to make light of a life. But look, as though to you about it not to regret. You are fine infantile, druzhishche.