Like, girls, the romanticists!

About what boys want from girls, and what for, mountains of researches are written. But if briefly, the conclusion is very simple. The type of man's sexuality directly depends on mentality type. Look, that you ishcheshch in the woman - and learn, who you such.

Basically, all of us, polovozrelye muzhiks, we share in bed on three big categories - "sportsmen", "consumers" and "romanticists". Certainly, these types can block in something each other, in them there are small gradation, but any characteristic lines are easy for noticing, it is necessary to reflect only - and what for it is necessary for me?

By the way, from a question "what for?" The behaviour of the adult man begins. If you does not interest, who you such and what motives operate your acts, you still simply have not grown. So - the circle of women which you can make happy, rather and is rather limited. The successful man first of all is flexible. He does not wish to be and will not be with the woman only "sportsman" or "consumer". Such narrowness does a life fresh. The successful man always slightly "romanticist". It after all such high - to be able to like women, to bathe in their adoration... At least from time to time.

So what we happen, men, in something very different, and in something similar, how laces? And here what.

Strongly pronounced "sportsmen" are chosen by women who or from them nearby have left, or suffer the underestimated self-estimation. " The sportsman "it also is the sportsman. It keeps count of fighting starts, drawing on a fuselage the broken hearts. By the way, it is its error -"sportsmen"often use as the man for the night that it is simple" to drive a hormone ". About any spiritual wounds and speech is not present. But"sportsman"of it simply does not understand. It in constant persistent search, eternally seems to it, that it has passed someone. peretseloval all nice little girls in a class. But who from us did not want it? At some even left. And here present"sportsman"on it will not stop. At first it will have all sokursnits (or, at least, will tell, that has had). Then becomes a thunder-storm of secretaries-reviewers. Career peak - a seducing of the wife of the boss (though not very much also it would be desirable, but silly to miss an opportunity). It is sharply infantile type of the man. A delay of youthful model of sexual behaviour. That is interesting, many presents"sportsmen"to grey hairs happen are quite happy with a life. While the sportsman in search, it is perfectly in order. At it always the most interesting woman ahead.

By the way, such model of behaviour ("Our Borka - the ladies' man") meanwhile is not considered in a society shameful. Don-Zhuanu many envy. As generates all new "sportsmen".

"Consumer", unlike the sportsman, most likely, is not infantile on gramme. He/she is the adult man who accurately knows that wants. Sex for "consumer" purely physiological requirement. It accepts sexual procedures that it is good to feel itself. Tragedy of some "consumers" - that it happens is necessary a lot of sex, differently the head is ill them and all from hands falls. And it stirs to job. Such "consumers" often confuse to "sportsmen". Actually, between these two types sksualnosti - a precipice.

Sometimes the "consumer" model of behaviour is designated already at youthful age, but we will repeat, it absolutely not infantile. More often it is a variant carried away (and successful) the businessman, the powerful and authoritative leader. Equally (only be not frightened) to "consumers" it is possible to carry Lavrentija Palycha Beriju and president Kennedy. As a rule, "consumer" does not have serious problems with a choice of the partner - it simply takes that is necessary to it, not hammering a head a romantic crap. Also it is ready to pay for it! On "consumers" the women in advance ready to low emotional fullness of relations most of all sink down. In exchange they manage costly presents and the stable arranged life.

And at last, "romanticist" upon whom it is necessary to dwell. Therefore as it is a lot of us (!), and it is possible to deal with us. "Romanticist" - widespread enough type of moderately infantile man. It not the hero and not the fighter, more likely even on the contrary. Strongly pronounced "romanticist" from time to time simply whiner and a gruel. But in the majority of "romanticism" are successfully balanced. In total gradually and the sea of emotions.

"Romanticist" looks at sex as on the form of display of feelings. In the woman he searches for something intriguing, non-standard, interesting. In each new love for "romanticist" the prospect of development of serious relations is important. Yes, at the heart of its romanticism banal infantility. But thus "romanticist" - edinstvenyj subspecies of infantile men which can it is high-grade and is many-sided develop. Including in sex. If "romanticism" not to stir, from it the sensible and attentive lover who is not afraid of experiments and not suffering unnecessary shyness in due course turns out. Frequently "romanticist" all is aimed at pleasure of the partner, removing own sensations on the second plan. Focus here that "romanticist" is inclined to narcissism. Any action of "romanticist" (since earning money and finishing studying of erogenous zones of the girlfriend) originates in desire to like. " If I something reach, it will be glad ". Certainly, aloud he similar does not speak anything. Moreover, with rare exception he even does not think so. This unconscious. But women appreciate"romanticist"not that he thinks, and how itself conducts. As a whole"romanticist"makes impression reliable and touchingly adhered to liked the person. There was really a love. Otherwise"romanticist"will quickly wave a tail and will escape on searches. Here who really breaks hearts.

Still "romanticist" appreciate that is able to change for the better. It is inclined first, to introspection, and secondly, to the analysis of motivations of surrounding people. Studies in the course of time to estimate, that is bad, and that is good. Accordingly, grows. Certainly, "romanticist" is not ideal. As a rule, it the visionary, indulgently concerns itself(himself) and easily justifies not so beautiful or not so successful acts. " The romanticist "can revel both the good mood, and bad. But it is in own way stable. To years to forty it has an accurate circle of contacts which completely satisfies its ambitions and requirement to like. Characteristic amorousness for the infantile person at"romanticist"is saved till an old age, but eventually it finds that from its point of view can be every day on his eyes and in its bed. The woman of"romanticist"- that which in a condition to stroke it, and thus to be to the extent of unpredictable and independent. As a rule, such woman becomes the wife of"romanticist". Periodically it capitally gets it the inertness and a narcissism but if it had before" sportsmen "and" consumers ", anywhere it will not leave.

Wives of "romanticists" seldom happen are silly. The man - "romanticist" for many women - a natural choice in the end of a thorny sexual way. "Romanticists" almost never fly to space and do not become presidents. At them happen protivnejshie zamorochki the emotional plan. More often other men of "romanticism" choose humanitarian trades and all life live from hand to mouth. But they give to women that those most of all appreciate - depth of feeling. And for the sake of it women are ready on much.

In the childhood all of us were a few "sportsmen". When have grown up, it happened and to "consume". It is possible to get stuck, of course, in one of these models of behaviour and to live quite happy life. But if somewhere in a subcortex at you the behavioural type of "romanticist" has sat down - it will be shown. And now listen to all and take good note. Open struggle for female heart against "sportsman" and "consumer" is won by "romanticist" more often. Then it can appear, that it was deceived, and this woman - not it. Then it will leave, upset and suffering a remorse. Will leave to search for the present love.

But before he will win. That in a context of our story at all morals, but ve-esma it is indicative.